Andy chose to lead Texas guy on till the very last minute, when he bailed.
"Now that I'm not going to Texas," says Andy, "I don't have to worry about dragging you somewhere you don't want to go, but who knows what the consequences will be for me not following through on my promise to go there? I'd better take a break from school for awhile."
"That sounds like a great idea!" you jump up and down excitedly. "Plus, that means you'll be able to come home with me and come to my birthday party . . . right?"
"Well," Andy looks down at his shuffling feet, "there's still the problem of me giving my dissertation. I wanted to give it next week before my major professor leaves the country, but one of my committee members is MIA, so I don't even know if he's read the copy of my thesis that I emailed to him. Even if he does return by next week, he may not be willing to do a rush dissertation, especially if he hasn't read the paper."
"When does your major professor return?" you ask, fearing the worst.
"That's the problem--he won't be back until February 13th--two weeks after your birthday. In the unlikely event that my other committee member returns, approves my thesis and is present for my dissertation, this probably won't matter. But if he doesn't return, I will have to wait for my major professor to get back from his trip, which means I won't be able to come home with you as planned."
"Awww maaan," you whine. "That's crap. I guess I could drive home without you, but what about our plan to go see all the creationist museums between here and home? And if I leave, how the hell are you going to get back to Wisconsin??"
"You could stay here with me . . ." Andy looks up and smiles. "You'd have an entire 2 weeks to do nothing except play video games and pack!"
"But, MY BIRTHDAY!!! IT'S EVEN ON A SATURDAY!!! I guess I could fly home for my birthday; plane tickets for that time are around $250 which isn't all that bad. I won't have my car, but I got by ok without it while I was home for Christmas. Plus, I still have a lot of crap to move; maybe it'd be better to bring some more of it home via airplane. You could come too then! You DID promise your sister-in-law you'd be coming home around the time her 3rd child is born . . .
"That's true," says Andy, "but I am really tight on money, and my sister in law will understand if I can't come for another 2 weeks. We'll have to wait and see."
"A third option," you continue, "is that I have had offers from other people to drive home with me. You could stay here with the crap we don't plan on bringing with us, then once you've given your dissertation take a shuttle to the airport and get a one-way ticket to Wisconsin. I really did want to go see those creationist museums with you though . . ."
"Hmmm, " ponders Andy. "Sure is a tough decision."
"Indeed," you agree.
If you think you should wait with Andy until he's given his dissertation, even if it means you'll miss your birthday, comment that you choose choice 1If you think you should fly back home for your birthday, then return to California and move when Andy's ready, choose choice 2If you think you should go without him, choose choice 3