"It just makes me sad."
That's what my sister Jen told Julie about the fact that I'm not married yet.
I mean, she's actually disappointed in me for not being married, and for "making up all these excuses."
. . .
Yeah.
. . .
God, I just wanna say to her, "you know, if you want me to get married so FUCKING bad, how bout YOU plan it." I swear to god, these people just need to STOP OVERREACTING!!!!
Well, whatever. I just needed to vent about that. I'm gonna try not to let it get to me anymore. I mean, it's her own fucking fault it makes her "sad," since she's the one who can't see that it isn't a big deal.
eeesh.
~j
posted by Queen Jezebel the Wicked @ 3:15 PM
6 Comments:
Jess,
I am sorry to hear that you're getting all this pressure to get married. Yeah, I would just calm down and take your time. When it's the right time to get married, then it's the right time to get married. As long as you are happy with Andy and everything else then you should not let anything bother you, not even your own family or friends.
P.S. If I am invited to your wedding party, can you make sure that I sit in a table filled with single,datable age ladies? Steph and Joe does not count.
stop spelling my name with an E.... damn you, TOM~~!!!!
lol tom. we basically know all the same people, so all the single, hot ladies are gonna be the likes of Steph and Jo. You should feel lucky! ;)
And I don't know what kind of stupid reception I'm going to have. Again, i haven't gotten that far in planning.
grrrr. you know, it's really damn hard trying not to let this get to me. I hate making plans, but i especially hate making plans when i'm not free to plan as I wish. There's just NO END to this shit!
gah!
~j
Just remember, Jess: strict adherence to the dogma of Christianity is a form of insanity. That's why they rhyme; it's either God's or our subconscious's way of keeping the faith in rational thought. Would your mom accept a legitimate Christian ceremony, where you promised yourselves to each other before God, with other Christians to witness and bless your union in the name of The Lord, that did not involve actually paying for a marriage license? Paying a clergyman/notary public/bureaucracy to make it "official" are the things that really take time and money to be arranged. The Bible never designated anyone to consecrate a religious act, be it marriage, baptism, or communion, except any true believers.
man jess, i gotta say i don't get it...i mean, a marriage is supposed to happend b/c YOU wanna make those vows...not b/c other people want you to make those vows....i mean, if they are putting so much pressure for you to do something you don't want to do how can they expect you to happy? If i put that kinda pressure on my bro and it made him miserable i'd feel bad about doing it.
I know! I totally don't get it!
I've even told them multiple times that we're gonna get married (eventually), so why all this pressure to do it NOW??! I mean, I'm sure they have good intentions, but they're not helping me at all.
uuuggghhh!!!
lol maybe i should just lie to them and tell them we got married. They'd probably believe me, and if not I doubt they'd be able to check and make sure. I wonder if that'd make them leave me alone?
Oh well, there's no way my conscience would let me do that, but lol can you imagine??!
"SURPRISE! WE'RE NOT ACTUALLY MARRIED!!! FOOOOLED YOU! FOOOOLED YOU! SUCKERRRRS!"
Oh man. I'd go to hell for sure.
~j
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