Another shot at Friendship
I responded to her last email by saying that I needed some time and space to cope with the disappointment. I truly believe that she did not mean to hurt my feelings. She is just a dits. Plus, I am tired of feeling upset and disappointed. Life is too short for that kind of thing, so just forgive and forget.
I am thinking about emailing her about meeting me at the gym to talk things out. The gym can no longer be a place of ill-feelings and anger. It cannot be a tainted place. After all, it is my sanctuary from daily life. Should I reach out to her? Or not?
posted by Sauce @ 2:55 PM
3 Comments:
NOT! john... meeting to talk things over is something people who have dated for say... 3-4 months do... not two people who have been going around the gym for a short while and who haven't even gone on their first date yet... too much too soon! u are still inthe casual stage! keep it that way and don't scare her off!
forget her john. i mean, you should still act decently to her in public, say "hi" if you want.
she was thoughtless and you deserve someone better then that, either for just a friend or beyond.
keep going to the gym--that is your place as well as hers
I think you guys are right. Everybody is saying that. I should just let her go. She is just one of those people who you cannot trust, due to her lack of interpersonal skills. Yeah, I am just going to keep my distance from her and only talk to her if she initiates it. The good news is I have yet to see her at the gym and I have lost 20 lbs since October.
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